"OO nga naman..Tama..Bakit hindi ko naisip yun?!?" - mga salitang naiisip natin kapag may mga tao tayong nakakausap na nagkataong may nasasabi silang linya na tila nagbibigay inspirasyon sa atin o nagbibigay epekto sa ating mga utak upang ito'y magproseso at marealize natin ang mga bagay bagay dito sa mundong reyalidad. Hindi ba't napakalakas ng impluwensya ng lahat ng nakapaligid sa atin? Lalo na't kung ang taong nagsabi sayo ay itunuturing mong isang kahanga-hanga na ang iyong tingin sa kanya ay napakataas, hindi imposibleng ika'y maniwala at sa ilang segundo lang ay maging iyong paniniwala na rin, tama?....
"Aww..nakakatouch naman..wow, sana lahat ng tao katulad mo...hay, grabe nakakatuwa naman..wow! Hindi ko alam kung paano ko masusuklian yan!"- Ilan lang yan sa mga katagang iyong masasabi, mararamdaman o maiisip kapag may taong nagsabi sayo ng mga linyang nakakadampi ng iyong puso, mga linyang kadalasang pinapangalooban ng mga pangako.. Sa mga ganyang pagkakataon, hindi natin maiwasan na matuwa, ma-touch, at higit sa lahat maniwala...Napakasarap naman kasing paniwalaan at damdamin ng mga pangungusap na katulad ng "andito lang ako palagi sa tabi mo, iwanan ka man niya, wag kang mag-alala dahil andito pa din ako, lagi mo akong maasahan, kung may poblema ka sabihin mo lang sa kin tutulungan kita palagi, hindi kita iiwanan,parang kapatid na kaya kita, ikaw ang bunso ko kaya wag kang mag-alala, lahat ng mang-away sau, sumbong mo sa kin ako bahala"..Hay..napakasarap tanggapin ng mga ganyang salita na ibinibitaw sa iyong harapan o maging sa text man lamang o kahit comment lang sa facebook o friendster diba? isama pa natin ang emails and chat... But do all of this lasts? maybe sometimes words are just meant to say but not to be done... By reading this article, you may thing na I'm totally a negative person..that it's hard for me to trust anyone..well actually, your wrong.. I am definitely an optimistic and bubbly person...I am pretty sure that your having a hard time to believe me now because if a reader will reflect in this article of mine without the author's definition about herself, he/she may think that the author is somewhat negative thinker,somehow.."galit sa mundo"/"Nega"...right? but to tell you honestly I just happen to make this to express what I feel inside of me..why? Because, this is what I do whenever I don't have the courage to tell someone what I feel for him/her (problem). I encountered a person kasi that I thought he was true with his words (not about love/not even a suitor, okey? hehe). He's a friend of mine and I even treated him as my bestfriend, as my kuya,and as my father but then he made me feel that everything that was done and said before were all just LIES... It hurts...but need to accept... I tried to understand the immediate chenge that happened to us like before, I can tell him all my problems, or talk with him with any topic, laugh with him, study with him and he even teaches me and then with just a snap...all of our closeness was ended..everytime we see each other now..it's just a hi-hello-goodbye conversation...melancholy is what I felt,moreover unfortunately I can;t do anything but to accept,..adjust,..and move-on, because of a certain reason I think he had why he suddenly became aloof with me.... A reason that is another person is involved which is I know from the very start is more important thatn me but please take note, it's not an issue with me if she is more important than I do because it should be talaga...basta, I can't say it here completely..ayun.. What i wish, hope and pray lang kasi sana... tinupad nya yung mga sinabi niya sa kin dati because now he's action of doint NOTHING with me is what hurts me a lot...Maybe some may comment or tell me that I should talk to him in order for this to be fixed but believe me, it can't be...and it would be better if I will just let this all happen...and I just need to learn step by step to live better without him. Anyway, we will definitely learn something from all experiences even bad or good ones..And with this good and then became bad experience of mine made me learn that not all words shoud be fed up wholeheartedly, we need to accept the fact that in reality not all forever words are realy for forever..because if you will always do..I would gradually wounded your heart...However, if you were already wounded, don't make it bleed more...what you should do, is learn to accept then find other ways or things that may heal your heart or make it more better...You know what, if a new person is willing to come along and enter your heart, oh please, don't try to prohibit that person and reason out that you will be hurt again...what's the explanation?? Don't be afraid of trying because if your too afraid of getting into the pool you will never ever learn how to swim and save yourself from a drowning ship if ever it happens...got it?? Always remember this by heart: Everything that happens to us, good or bad, God always has his reason and it is for the betterment of our lives..^^,