Hey, are you a guy? If you are..then I think this article is applicable to you.. more especially if your loving a special girl right now and she is very important with you that you don't want to hurt her, make her cry, make her sad as long as you can.. and more importantly you don't want to lose her...I know sometimes you tend to be bizaare and bewildered with us girls...that's why I've decided to put up an article about some tips for guys on how to haandle your special and delicate girls..
1. Be sweet- majority of the girls has the nature of sweetness thus they really love the people who are very sweet. This has the biggest contribution on what makes the start of love which is the "kilig factor".
2. Be appreciative- Sine it's the nature of the girls to be sweet, they always try to do things that can make the guys they love happy, touched, or overwhelmed in their own ways.. FYI: not only boys are doing their efforts.
3. Be sensitive- Girls are secretive and mysterious. It is not their habit to easily show or tell what they really feel or what they want to say. Take note of this: With their almost every word, or action, there are meanings behind it...Always try to Read Beyond The Lines....
4. Be yourself- They don't like "plastic guys" trying to impress to much the girl,, trying to be someone else.. but when they are with others, guala! it is not the real them pala... If the girl really love you,..whoever you are even if you are "kokey", she will accept and love you whole-heartedly.
5. Be familiarize and let her familiarize- Do not simple know her friends but befriend with them. As much as possible, it is also the best if you will take the effort of visiting her home and introdyce yourself to her family..This is the best shot you can give to her..A million point! and also on the other way around for the girl..let her know your friends and your family...
PS: If you can't do this, you can make her feel that you
6. Be balance- Give her time... even if you are in your most busy day.. A goodmorning when you wake up or a goodnight before you sleep can already do... Just let her know that you are really a busy bee that day/days..
Don'ts...(The hard part for guys)
First..Don't take advantage on girls..especially if you feel that she also loves you extremely..some may not be as extreme as you do to her but you should give importance to the love she gives to you. Let her feel that you are mutual with your feelings because that's the truth right? there sort of guys out there kasi that are "pakipot" in terms.. or they tend to make the girl do more effort or act like it's just nothing with them.
Remember: Girls are sweet and lovable...very showy..but also delicate..
Second, Oh please, don't be fond of making her jealous...We understand that the feeling of someone that is jealous for you is good..you can really feel that she doesn't want to lose you..and yeah, it is also good to make us jealous sometimes in order to make our love more extreme but it is NOT a good habit.. Sometimes is fine but always and worst..consecutive...is a big no no... We all have our own boiling point and one of the most weaknesses of girls is jealousy..
Third: Don't make some moves with girls that is uneasy for them.. If you know that she does'n want intimate moves, don't force her... RESPECT...
Fourth= Don't push yourself hard.. Do not try to impress her so much that you already look awkward with it.. It will just be a turn off..
Fifth,,, If you have a fight or a problem, it's time to break your walls of pride.. Don't lengthen the time you are not okey with each other.. Don't let another sunrise will come and yet your not talking. Always make it a point that you already resolve the problem..
! Exemption: It is not always the guys who have sinned...
Sixth/ When you are together, make sure you put your attention to her and she also gives her attention.. A date without your mutual attention is NON-SENSE.. like for an instance, an attractive girl walked infront of you and your eyes tend to follow that...Oh.....tsk tsk tsk..
----> Guys, you know the song nroken strings?
"you can't play on broken strings, you can't feel anythin, that your heart DON'T want to feel.. I can't tell you something that ain't real... Well, the truth hurts and LIES WORST.. How can I give anymore..When I love you a little less.. than before...
-This song, may be the song that the girl you love most will dedicate to you in a matter of time if you keep on doing the things that shouldn't be... and maybe...just maybe...you might wake-up one morning that you are able to realize that the person that makes your life is already gone.... by your carelessness.... It hurts a lot...but true...
♥ Miss Blogger
