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♥ Monday, April 21, 2008

My Complicate Life ♥

In our time now, illegal love is not a stranger word for teens and actually even in adults. How and Why does this thing happens? Love does not choose any age. It may exist in anyone and in any age. Sometimes even those two people are still not mature enough to have a relationship like let's say 12 years old, they already fall in love and commits a relationship. Mostly of them are illegal or there is no permission from their parents. Since the parents think that their still not at the right age to commit they prohibit their child to take that until they're not at their right age. But why does some of them still commit even they are already prohibited by their parents? Honestly, I cannot tell all the reasons why.. Because I don't know all the reasons of each of them who does that. I'll just share the reasons I know as I see in my surroundings. First is they do that as a rebellious act to their parents. Second is they just want to satisfy their curiousness. and lastly, but I think a good reason is they really love each other. For this reason I think that this can prove how powerful love is. My only opinion about the people who are involved with illegal relationships , I think it would be better if you will tell them the truth because it is hard to hide relationship just come to think of it.. While your dating you cannot enjoy to the fullest because at the back of your mind there is a thought that maybe there is someone they know and catch them that they're dating.. Just like suffering from being paranoids. And lastly, my opinion on relationships in an early age, I hope that they will be allowed to have relationships as long as there is no bad effects on them. I think not all relationships are not causing them bad effects in fact sometimes it causes them good effects like in their studies since they have inspiration they sometimes study well and memorize their lesson more easily. For me, there is nothing bad about committing relationships in an early age as long as you know how to set your priorities and boundaries. Set education and family as your first priority and put your relationship as your second priority. If you already know how to set your own priorities and boundaries I think, for me you can have a relationship with someone but also be sure that you are also ready to face the possible consequences.

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5:39 AM

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As I said in my previous article there are many kinds of love. But the most famous kind of love is the love for your special someone. Yihee! haha! Many people enjoy talking about this topic.. Not only teen agers but even adults. Actually even Toddlers sometimes also want to talk about it or tease their friends about this kind of love. Well. honestly, it's really fun talking with this topic. You know what I keep observing people,even myself, to know why everyone loves to talk about it. First and foremost that I saw as a reason is the "kilig factor". Maybe some or most of you already felt this thing. Diba, the feeling is makes you happy or some kind of unexplained feeling that makes you better or "crazy". Sometimes nga instead of getting "inis" with the people who teases you with someone you get happy or even thankful pa, because of the kilig factor..haha...Second is when the topic of love is about yourself. It's really nice to share your love stories or love experiences with your friends or family. Yung bang nashashare mo the happy moments with them. ang saya kasi ilabas ung mga happy momets diba? Now let's change it. Why does people want to be inlove? Actually, the most common reason is it makes them so happy... The center of this is that the one they love is their "inspiration". Sometimes they can study better, work better or talk to them in more fun because of the love. the love that makes them inspired and happy. Let's tackle another topic about love but in illegal form..In another article..hehe^^

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5:13 AM

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Maybe some of you thinks..."huh?!? love makes the world go round?!? I think it is Money makes the world go round?!?" Yah, your right, the real saying is money makes the world go round... But haven't you thought of that love too can make the world go round?...For me love has the bigger part than money that makes the world go round..Why? Come to think of these examples... Grandma making coffee for grandpa, mom, taking good care of her family, dad providing the needs of his family, Older sister taking good care of the younger once, a stranger that helps you even he don't know you at all, your friend that is always there for you no matter what happens, and of course the most famous kind of love.. your boyfriend/girlfriend or your husband/wife that cares for you and the person who makes you happy and makes your life complete. Why do you think those people move like these? Even those people who work? Yes, they work for money.. But for what? For the people they love, right? And love is the only reason for their moves. Love is a really big word for everyone. There are many kinds of love, Love for the family, love for your friends, Love for your pets, Love for your stuffs, etc. etc. I can see love everywehere. It's like the air that is always around. You can't see it but you can feel it. I think that no one can live without love...Because even you hate everyone, you don't have family, or worst is your a "stone-hearted man" you are still living with love..How? Each and everyone of us love ourselves. Actually, there are people who still need to learn how to love theirselves but I believe that even those people have still even just a bit love for theirselves. However, there is the most famous kind of love....And that is.... Love for your "special someone", right?. That's the topic that most of the people enjoy talking about.Why? Let's see to my next article for this topic..^^

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4:10 AM

♥ Saturday, April 19, 2008

My Complicate Life ♥

Surely there are a lot of things that the teen agers got in their minds. Since we as teen agers are not yet well developed and still lack of many experiences, and yet the environment we are living on is really well developed, the technologies surrounding us are hi techs already and can give us a lot of information, still... there are a lot of things that leave our minds and thoughts empty and unanswered. Some parents keep some secrets to their children and they don't know that sometimes they leave the children, especially the teens, in curiousity. Yes, there are a lot of teens that are very smart, wise, intelligent, and very knowledgeable but even those teens have questions in their minds that are left unanswered. There are questions that the books nor the internet or any references can answer. because of these curiousities , these may lead to two different effects in them. It may cause bad effects or good effects or it can be both. Some examples of bad effects are they try the things that they are curious of. Like smoking, drinking alcohols, and also tasting addictive drugs. However, there are also good effects especially when it comes about their skills. Like they become a critical thinker which improves their minds. They also keep finding the answers in any references they may think and in that, they become knowledgeable because while they're finding for the answers they find some other information they will know unexpectedly all by themselves. They also try to discover new things which creativity, wild guesses, and smartness can also be shown. I hope this article can help the adults understand the teens more and so as the teens to understand their selves even more.
*these infos about teens are not made by any professionals, it was made by a simple teen to raise the voices of other teens...*

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4:27 AM

♥ Thursday, April 17, 2008

My Complicate Life ♥

Maybe all of us are very familiar with the saying live as if it is your last, right? But have you ever thought of how would you do that? I know that it means like live everyday that you are always happy, smiling, avoiding to have enemies, do everything you want, etc. but honestly, can we do that? I think no.. Yes, we can be happy, and etc. etc. but we can not avoid having problems, feeling down sometimes, hurt, and cry. Maybe that saying can be just our inspiration..to avoid us to do bad,....to make our day better... to help us survive in some sort of things....So, if you have enemy, right now, try to work it out as early as you can.. No one knows when you will be gone,...even you. If ever you have problems, don't take it very deeply,..try ro smile even just for a second and always remember there are no problems that cannot be solved..and God is always there to help us. Just pray...Trust me...It will help you...A LOT...^^

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9:51 PM

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Monsters-fearful creatures, what the kids hate, horrible and terrifying. Siyempre we're not like that....hehe....it's just our tawagan...We were best friends since first year..March 17, 2005. Now we're three years, 1month and 1 day best friends already..hehe...Oh diba monster I know almost the exact present duration of our best friendship..ahaha... not that exact coz I don't know the hours, minutes, and seconds..hehe... We, monsters, have a lot common...actually when she was at our house, it was just the two of us.. I think that was card giving when we we're second year.. We talked about ourselves..we revealed some secrets to one another..And after that talk we consider each of us as soul mates..why?!? secret...hehe..Because if I will reveal it..I also revealed our secrets..hehe.. ganun kami kapareho..We both like salty foods..we even had a pair of shoes that is the same..and beleive it or not we did not plan or talk about it.. We just knew it because of the party of our common friend. when Hazel (monster mimi) came there, I was surprised and then I said to her..."monster!!! look!" and then I pointed out my shoes..and we we're wearing the same pair of shoes..ang galin!hehe...The only difference of our shoes is the color... hers is beige and mine is white..still...have the same style, brand, etc. hehe... Siyempre like other best friends we are also having problems between the two of us..sometimes we hide it within ourselves..thinking we will hurt each other..but after thinking...we'll tell it carefully, so we can help one another out. Monster is also a great dancer like marimar..grabe..hehe...She's also good in English..Actually she won the last encounter of the brains in English..Congratz, Monster!... Well, I hope that we will keep each other forever.. Pumuti man buhok namin..ahehe... Love yah Monster Mimi..!

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8:50 PM

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There are a lot of words that can have a lot of spelling...One of these are muffins..which for karen and I can also be spelled as mapins...haha...Actually our spelling is incorrect for dictionaries, thesaurus, encyclopedia, or any references but for us it is correct...Why?!? Let's start it this way..Mapins is our "tawagan"..we're not bf/gf huh..we are best friends.. Great best friends. Si Karen ang nakaisip ng tawagan namin. We we're best friends since first year, now, we're incoming fourth year and still, we're best friends. We also have quarrels sometimes, misunderstandings, hurting each other unconsciously, but we fix it as early as we can, yung bang hindi na pinapahaba pa. We do not let pride to come between us kasi. We say sorry to each other. Talking about our problems, our mistakes, our kakulangan, but not only sad things. Siyempre we also talk about our good memories, our craziness or our "topak" times..hehe... there are thingS that we are common with and nagkakasundo... even in pagtitipid in some sort of things pero we're not kuripot huh..hehe.. we budget our money naman..kaya lang sometimes we also having difficulties when it comes to shopping..haha.. nawawala minsan ang pagkatipid..hehe.. We are both joining cheering.. hilig na rin kasi namin and for me it is also karen's passion..(one of her passions).. Being a member of the cheering squad and not to mention also being the captain of the squad...Karen really deserves it...She's really a good dancer and a flyer. Siguro you're thinking pa rin of what is the connection of for us mapins is also a correct spelling of muffins. Here's the reason why... Diba our tawagan is mapins..so mapins can also be mean us our relationship...And our relationship is in the correct spelling..meaning..we have geat chemistry that both of us can come together, enjoy one another, accompany one another, help one another etc. So that's why for us mapins is also a correct spelling of muffins...Love yah mapin^^

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8:11 PM

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My Complicate Life ♥

I have thought making this topic because I have been thinking some of what I experienced in my life. Sometimes I get confused of reality and fantasy. I am just wondering?!? if a person is dreaming (not only while sleeping) is he still living in reality? Or... sometimes in fantasy already? I think living in reality is better than living in fantasy... But sometimes I just wish that I could live in fantasy because there are many things that is hard to accept in reality. Like for an instance, accepting for the lost(died) of someone you loved is accepting the reality,right?.. Sometimes it's really hard to accept the truth (bad ones) but as they said.. "you need to face it whether you like it or not"... I think facing problems is also beyond the reality..Coz in fantasy there are no problems.... or even bad things...Only your dreams that are impossible to be done, goals(not all), and happy memories. Kasi naisip ko lng.. almost all of us are keep dreaming of that dream even if it is impossible to happen..like for example.. a person dreaming that she is flying... diba it is impossible to happen yet we are happy and contented even if we know that it is not going to happen. Actually in that kind of example it made me realize that living in fantasy (for a while) is not a bad thing coz it may be a cause for someone to ba happy even just for a while... but I am not saying that we should live in fantasy... Yes, living in reality is better than living in fantasy..but I advise for the people who are suffering from problems right now.. you have the right to live in fantasy.. but remember.. only for a while because you still should face your problem and solve it... Live in fantasy for a while to reminisce..trust me it can help you to solve your problem and then... if you think your ready and strong enough to face it.. then start living again in reality and go! solve it..! ^^

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4:26 AM

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There are many things or events here in the earth that some of us thinks crazy... I don't know why.. even loving someone may even cause people got crazy..(not literaly) what I mean is they can even smile unexpectedly..laughing without any company, feeling "Kilig" suddenly..and many things that all of a sudden there is a thought that will be popped out in their minds...which is... oh my gosh! am I getting crazy?!?...crazy because of love?!? Many people have that experience... but you know what,,having that experience is crazy but a happy thing.. don't worry about that experience because it will not make you crazy(literally) hehe....I experienced one time I was on a jeepney I don't have anyone I could talk to.. but all of a sudden I just smiled and almost gonna laugh..hay..thank god I stopped my self to laugh...wanna know the reason? actually,,,nothing I just heard a music that was related to "someone". after smiling.. I got shy coz I thought what if someone looked at me and saw me smiling without reason?!? hala! That person may think that I'm Crazy! haha!honestly...that time I was inloved....but you know what I feel happy.. despite of my problems.. I can still smile sometimes..when I set a side my problems for a while and think of my moments with my inloved thing... haha...actually I don't have a boyfriend yet but diba you don't need to have a boyfriend to be inlove.. you know what I mean.. it can be having your crush..falling inlove with someone...etc.. But you know not only falling inlove can make you crazy...sometimes getting hurt with someone can also make you crazy... haiz..there are many things tlga to make sm1 get crazy...(not literally)...hehe...

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3:45 AM